Loss of any and every kind becomes
a huge part of our lives. There is no heart that is left untouched by the idea,
or occurrence of loss. Consider what you may: time, possession, a person; or a
thought, moment, or love that is lost. Surely, there is something so far that
each one of us has lost- something that we once held dear to us, something that
was loved.
Loss leaves us with a hollow
space right in the middle of our universe. It leaves us feeling like amateurs
at this strangeness called ‘life.’ As and how the circumstances may choose to favor,
it leaves us with a scar that changes every perspective. It changes our world,
life, and us. We are left with everything a mess. It is the kind of mess that
we have to deal with without having any idea of where to start, yet the sooner
it is dealt with- the better. The way one deals with it depends on the rawest
nature of what you have caged inside of you. You shall either rise, or you
shall stay low.
It is a difficult task- to change
what makes your core, but it is not impossible. Consider the insecurity and
negativity in your core to be a stone. A stone that brings and holds you down,
and tells you that you are left alone after this loss- that you have nowhere
else left to go than bury yourself in the darkness of silent moments. Although,
remember to also consider that with the right spirit and kind helping hands,
there is no stone that can be left unturned. It is all a matter of faith.
So have faith- in you first, and
then in the energy that surrounds you. It is this energy that gives you the
power to endure and overcome the loss, and to sustain yourself through this
process.
